“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
We’re getting hitched! And we’d be delighted if you could join our wedding!
Son of Mr. Rudolf Widjajahakim
and Mrs. Tjoa Sioe Lay
Daughter of Mr. Iwan Jusup
and Mrs. Lili Sianawati
The story began with the quiet hum of a coffee grinder at Coffee Shop in Senopati. What started as a casual meeting among colleagues—brought together by a mutual friend—quickly became something more. That first encounter, full of laughter and good food.
Just one week later, the connection deepened on a journey to Serpong, just the two of us. We began the day at Coffee Shop in BSD, signaling the true dawn of our relationship. Through a full day of deep conversation, sharing our lives, and we discovered we held the exact same principle about relationship. This realization transformed our casual dates into an official, meaningful path together.
Our love story reached its peak on September 12th, 2024, during our first overseas trip. Derrian proposed in Genting Highlands, Malaysia, after secretly securing the blessing of Jessica's parents and asking her to be his forever in front of Derrian's parents. This unforgettable day made us officially fiancé and fiancée. The commitment deepened on December 28th, 2024, with our official engagement. Keeping it intimate, our small families gathered for a meaningful Chinese traditional ceremony, celebrating our future and cementing our bond.
All those shared cups of coffee and deep conversations led to this monumental wedding day. On January 3rd, 2026, our journey culminated in a life-changing commitment. The perfect blend of our lives was sealed, as told by the hashtags: #JESSgotcaffeIANated because the small, shared ritual of #CoffeeLedThemToTheCathedral. The simple joy of coffee had guided us to a lasting love.
Gereja Katedral Jakarta
Jl. Katedral No.7B Pasar Baru. Kec. Sawah Besar. Jakarta Pusat.
Menara Citicon 22nd floor
Jl. Letjen. S. Parman Kav. 72 Jakarta Barat.
Your presence is the greatest gift of all. However, if you are unable to attend and would like to send us your wishes in the form of a gift, please send them to these account below:
* Please ensure the names and account number match the bride and groom's names when making the transfer.
** Please confirm your gift by sending proof of transfer/delivery receipt to the bride and groom via personal message. Thank you.
“Our happiness will be complete with your presence and blessing in this celebration of love. Thank you for your kind wishes, prayers, love, and attention given.”
